huhuhu....I'm still fine for now.
Ok, let's get it straight...
I wanna talk about something, something a woman will find anything to argue/object.
yeah..the topic is about MAN.
From man I derived something to narrow a bit about the scope.
It's started when I told a friend of mine that I'm in love with a girl.
I showed her the picture...
She said, "wow, cantik" and I just thought it would stop there....
but she "accidentally" uttered a statement that somehow inspired me...
"you memang sama jek dengan laki-laki lain, sume nak cantik-cantik"
I glanced back at the picture and suddenly I said within my mind, "Wow, memang cantik la"
But I took that "statement" into my study and start constructing anything that could help me...
Then I started asking myself, am I?
I looked closely at that girl's picture, her hair, her smile, her eyes, her lips, her skin and everything. I said, "Oh shit, it's true!"
Girls, if you have a boyfriend...have you ever asked them why they fell in love with you? if they answered, did it satisfy you enough?
When I looked at that friend of mine, I could say that she's not bad at all...
So, I went on finding any friend who has a gf that's not beautiful....I found some and I asked them questions...
1 of the question, do you think your girlfriend is beautiful?
has anyone told you that your gf is not that beautiful?
Then, I went back and started to look at all the girls I loved before...
Scarily, all of them looked beautiful because I think they were...
I was like, "damn, she's right again"
Then I refer to other question,
What makes you approached your gf before she's yours?
*they paused a while...
They answered because of ATTRACTION.
I proceed, when do you ACTUALLY fall in love????
Okay, it's true girls...
Men are attracted to beauty but beauty that only they could define...
If you were in a party, and none of them approached you but your friends that you think are SEXY, BEAUTIFUL, ANGELIC, HOT and etc...
There are 2 thoughts occurred actually (common):
1. You're down because you think you're not beautiful
2. Guys ALWAYS like that type of girl..(what? Do they think that kind of girl can treat them well?)
If these thoughts came to your mind, you'll start blaming on something.
They didn't approach you, not because you're not beautiful, it's just your beauty isn't in their definition. They ARE attracted to BEAUTY.
I'm a man and I can't be so far different from other man.
I know how I define beauty (please ignore the so called 'inner beauty' first because it's not something you can determine (fast) at first meeting).
It's just LUCKY that the girl I'm in love with is "EXTREMELY BEAUTIFUL" to them...to say I'm just UNLUCKY to be defined as such "statement".
ok, back to the 'question' I left..
I list you some of their answer...
-aku tgh borak2 dgn dier, tibe2 angin tiup rambut dier and aku nmpk dahi dier yg licin. sejak tuh aku semakin berminat.
-setiap kali aku dekat dengan dier, degupan jantung aku semacam.
-dier tgh duk bace surat khabar, aku nmpk jari-jari dier halus and panjang2. Hehehehe
-aku tetibe ternampak leher dier yang jinjang.
-satu hari aku nmpk dier tertidur atas meja kepenatan, aku terpaku tgk dier.
-Aku tiup mate dier sbb masuk habuk and baru aku perasan mate dier warne hitam, org ckp dier cntik sgt rupenye common jek matenye.
-aku dgr dier nyanyi lagu fav aku tanpa dier tau aku mendgrnye.
and ade lg la possible situation...
So, to me...it's beautiful!!
falling in love is a gift, do you consider a gift is something bad?
most of you would say no...(unless you think too much)
Be clear...a man WILL attract to BEAUTY that only they KNOW how to DEFINE it.
If you bf said that Megan Fox is beautiful, I'm sure there are men out there would say something different. BEAUTY is INFINITE.
till then, see ya!