Rationalize

There's a story of a young newly wed....

Mustafa and Lina have been married for almost 3 years, granted with 2 lovely kids...

Both of them love each other, and they were happy, a happy family...

But until one day, the going gets tough...Mustafa get promoted and Lina's boutique business blooms like a flower.

They less communicate and seldom spend their time with children....

Mustafa get to know a lot of friends and so do Lina...

Words spread fast like virus, both of them eventually got in a fight...all that they have been building crumbled piece by piece.

After too much fight, they decided a very harsh decision...to finally separated!!

Oh my......they'll leave both of their children into the brink of despair.

Why in the world 3 minutes of 'story' destroying the castle they build for 3 years? 

Napoleon is also not that good in conquering their castle...but why 3 minutes?

They did not RATIONALIZE, they put their 'story' to far ahead their thoughts...BLOCKING everything.

The one that they trust once, become their enemy...and their children suffer the consequences.

SEPARATED and DIVORCE, do you think both of this words the same?

SEPARATED = you have the same feeling but u still have a declaration for you to hold on and keep on believing, your children will see that you are a happy parents even though you're not.

DIVORCE = you have the same feeling WITHOUT a declaration, your children will lose hope...

My dear friend, in any relationship u ever encounter in your wonderful life....u need to be rationalized.

Be it friendship, couples, coursemate, housemate, buddy, colleague, employer-employee....

You might be strong to handle it, but you never know how your children will finally accept it...they may not as strong as you.

THINK, and it never kills to do so....